Yami Gautam on Marriage, Motherhood, and Finding Balance Beyond the Spotlight

The actress opens up about her quiet wedding with filmmaker Aditya Dhar, embracing motherhood, and navigating life as a working actor.

Yami Gautam has always believed in keeping her personal life rooted in simplicity, even while thriving in the spotlight. The actor, who married filmmaker Aditya Dhar in June 2021, chose an intimate and deeply traditional wedding ceremony in Himachal Pradesh, attended only by close family members. At a time when celebrity weddings often turn into grand public spectacles, Yami and Aditya’s decision stood out for its quiet authenticity.

The couple first met while working on Uri: The Surgical Strike, the blockbuster that also marked a turning point in both their careers. Their wedding reflected their shared values — Yami did her own makeup, her sister styled her hair, and she wore jewellery that had been passed down through generations in her family. The ceremony focused on rituals, family bonds, and personal meaning rather than glamour.

Over the years, Yami and Aditya have continued to grow individually and together. While Aditya Dhar cemented his reputation as one of Bollywood’s most successful filmmakers following Uri and the recent success of Dhurandhar, Yami carved a distinct space for herself with performances across theatrical releases and digital platforms. Despite their professional achievements, the couple has consciously kept their relationship away from constant public attention.

In 2024, their lives changed significantly with the arrival of their son, Vedavid. Yami has since spoken candidly about the emotional shifts that came with motherhood, including the challenges of returning to work. She revealed that she continued shooting during her pregnancy and later struggled with feelings of guilt when balancing professional commitments with caring for her newborn — emotions that resonate with many working mothers.

Yami credited her family, especially her mother, for helping her navigate this phase with perspective. According to the actor, motherhood has reshaped her outlook on life, teaching her patience, responsibility, and a deeper sense of purpose, while also reinforcing the belief that women should not feel pressured to choose between career and family.

Though Yami and Aditya rarely share details of their private world, their occasional public statements and appearances reflect a partnership built on mutual respect and understanding. From a low-key wedding to embracing parenthood on their own terms, the couple continues to define success beyond box-office numbers — prioritizing balance, privacy, and emotional fulfilment in an industry driven by constant visibility.